The Blog Is Back!

Well, after a few amazing weeks of rest, I am back blogging.

We've arrived safely in Poland and the weather is gorgeous - although extremely hot. (Wasn't cooler weather supposed to be one of the "perks" of this move?) School starts on the 17th and we're hoping that the boys will make friends quickly. (We had a few tears last night from our sensitive one about how much he misses his friends. **heartbreaking**) I need to find a coffee shop because blogging from home is just no fun. I much prefer to be distracted with some people watching and a good latte. There's a few things missing for the house, but we'll pick those up while we're out and about this weekend.

And, it will all fall into place...I believe that. (Yes, that's my "We've just moved!" pep talk! This pep talk is crucial for the first 6-8 weeks of a move! If you find me frustrated or crying - please repeat those words to me.)

Okay, and while there will be plenty to share about our new life here in Poland, let's talk about how fabulous summer was!! It was amazing!! There are no adjectives which can adequately describe the 7 weeks at home. After a bit of rain in June, July was just spectacular! Which meant lots of outdoor activities and fun for us!

We golfed - mini, Par 3 and what we refer to as "Big Boy Golf" (that's a full 18 holes on a non-Par 3 course). I've honestly never golfed so much in my entire life! Caleb had his first legitimate par on the "Big Boy" golf course!

We hit the local amusement park several times. Grayson even rode several roller coasters which is a huge step! He did a couple with our friends from Iowa and then my sister-in-law got him on The Comet!

We spent a lot of time with friends and family! (A trip to Maine, boating on Lake George, shopping, Foot Golf, fishing, swimming, eating, drive-in movies! The list is long!)

We did a family 5K together.

We relaxed. And this was something we all needed to do after packing up our belongings in Malaysia and preparing for life here in Poland. It's one of the reasons we love going back to Upstate New York each summer. We can just relax by the water (or in the water) and soak in all that this spectacular little part of the world has to offer.

In fact, we love it here so much that we put in an offer to buy our own house - and it was accepted. Yup, we called a realtor (Thank you Cindy for helping us!), saw a few places and this Gambrel style house will hopefully be ours in October (providing inspections, appraisals and all that sort of stuff goes smoothly!).

So next summer we'll be able to stay in our own house on Hadlock Pond.We'll have a place where we can leave some stuff each summer. A place for friends and family to visit. A place which we will look forward to returning to each year and making more great memories.

P.S. I know it's Friday! Fab 5 Friday will return next week! I promise!

The Blog Is On Vacation.

The weather is nice and Blaine has arrived so the blog is taking a little vacation. Hope you all are enjoying the summer as much as we are! 

Fab 5 Friday...

Hola Peeps!! Going to make it a quick one as the rain has finally stopped and it looks like we've got a couple of nice days coming our way! I can already hear my lounge chair calling me...if you listen closely, I bet you can hear it, too!

Anyways...here's a brief Fab 5 for ya'!

1. Dinner at my Bro's House. Last Sunday was dinner at my brother's house...and he and his wife cooked up a feast. But, for me, the highlight was definitely the steamed clams! Yum! My kids will tell you that it was the make-your-own sundaes served in Yankees ball caps, but trust me, it was definitely the clams. (Aided by my brother's Heady Topper and Sip of Sunshine!) Thanks for hosting!!

2. My Little Chefs in Training. So, we've been eating out some, but I will say that my boys are turning into quite the little helpers in the kitchen and on the grill. Both boys have been doing grill duty (with my watchful eye) and assisting with dinner prep. It's definitely been enjoyable having them in the kitchen. (And, I love that they're not on the iPads during this time!)

3. Container Arrives in Poland. By the time I hit "Publish" my dear husband will be overseeing/assisting with the unpacking of our container in Poland. It made it there in 5 weeks (not 8) and we couldn't be happier! This will make our arrival in August that much smoother!

Blaine's bachelor pad in Poland

4. Hole In One. Yup, I shot the ever elusive hole in one while golfing with the boys and my dad on Tuesday. A nice 130 yard par 3. I couldn't see the hole and used my 5 wood and knew it was a pretty good shot. But, as Caleb and I approached the hole looking for my ball...it was no where in site. Caleb jokingly said he would check the cup - and there it was! We even had Grayson come check the cup before I grabbed it out! Needless to say, I didn't care how I golfed the rest of the day (which was pretty crappy, if you must know) - I just basked in the glory of my one fantastic shot. I will now receive a plaque commemorating my shot which will be placed on the wall of the bar at Sunnyside. Yup, that's quite apropos.

5. Blaine is Coming! And we end the Fab 5 with the happy news that Blaine arrives here on Tuesday! Woohoo! We can't wait to see him!

Happy 4th of July to those celebrating!! We will be bbq'ing here and watching the local fireworks.

Fab 5 Friday...late.

Greetings and salutations! Sorry for the late post, but yesterday was just too gorgeous to grab the computer and bang out a blog. Today is cloudy (but not raining...YET) and the kids are over with their cousin, Ally, so I have a few minutes to throw down a few words. (Along with painting my nails...priorities, you know!)

The past week has been all about the kids. You name it...we've been doing it. So here's the re-cap of the fun stuff we've been doing via the Fab 5!

1. Grayson's Birthday. Last Friday was the littlest dude's birthday...which meant mini-golf, Martha's Ice Cream, Harvest Pizza, and a blueberry pie for dessert. To say he had an enjoyable day would be an understatement! The kid was in heaven!

2. Fishing, Swimming and Kayaking. We moved into the lake house last weekend...and it's wonderful to be back. The kids have been doing all of their favorite summer time activities. I'm thankful that the fish have been biting and that their kayaking skills seem to have improved. It will be a lovely 6 weeks here.

3. Golf. We golfed at Sunnyside Par 3 on Wednesday with Poppy. Just perfect to get the boys back golfing as they haven't played on a course in two years. And you can't beat the price! We are already checking Weather.com to see when we can go back this week! 

4. Tuesday Night Track Series. The boys are back running track on Tuesday nights. I love that they enjoy doing this. It's fun, free and very well-organized! A big thank you to the members of the Adirondack Runners who do this series for the months of June and July!

5. The Great Escape. The season passes are in full use. We went again this week with cousin Ally - and everyone seemed to have fun! We even got Grayson on a few new rides. (Still no rollercoasters!) And, I love that we can go for a few hours and then leave. 

So there you have it! We've also had many meals out at the kids' favorite places. (They are so easy - which makes it a beautiful thing for me!) We've done a little shopping and we've been busy planning for the upcoming week! Golf and the movies and, most likely, the water park this coming week!

And finally, I spoke with Blaine today and he's busy settling into our house in Poland. He said our container arrives on Monday and we've got our fingers crossed that it will clear customs quickly. If it does, there's a chance our "stuff" can be at the house when we arrive in August. Wouldn't that be nice?! A girl can dream...

Fab 5 Friday...

Greetings from the U.S.! So good to be home - and mostly over jet lag. The kids were rock stars with the whole jet lag thing! Maybe that has to do with them being kids. Me...not so much. Many nights of turning on the t.v. and watching various episodes of  HGTV...Blaine should be frightened when we buy our forever home. I have a list about a mile long of things that home will need!

Anyways...for the summer it will strictly be Fab 5 Fridays for the blog unless I'm struck by the unusual need to write. This is the time when I will give blogging a break and spend the summer relaxing with a good book while I watch the kids fish on the dock.

Today's Fab 5 is dedicated to my littlest dude, Grayson. Today is his 9th birthday and while he's been driving me insane all week with his constant chattering about his new Nintendo 3DS, I do love the little guy more than words...although, today I'm going to give it a shot!

The Fab 5 Reasons to Love Grayson...

1. His obstinacy. Why would a mom love this in a child? Doesn't it drive you crazy? The answer is most definitely - YES. But, I also know that this will not allow him to be bullied. It will give him the fortitude to express his opinions as he grows up. He will eventually learn to channel it in ways that will work to help him. Don't always believe that being obstinate is a bad thing...

2. His caring nature. This child cares for his friends and family like a boss. (That's his term.) I've seen him give hugs to friends out of no where. I've watched him cry with others because they were crying. He sends text messages to his friends around the globe to check in on them after surgery. He shows me much love on days when I'm feeling blue. He just has a way of knowing what a person needs to feel better. If we could only all be like this...

3. He's smart. Now, admittedly, he doesn't like to write...which drives me insane. (How can this kiddo of mine not like to put his thoughts into words?) But, he's really quite the smartie with the subjects he does like - like math. Maybe that's why I put it here...because math and science were never my favorite subjects, but this kid loves them. And for that I admire him...

4. His big brown eyes. Yes, this is totally superficial. But, those brown eyes of his will make you melt when he's absolutely pushed you to your limits.

5. His sense of adventure. This kid has it. He has loved the travel we have done and the places we have visited. He can negotiate for a tuk-tuk in Cambodia like nobody's business and was the first to get on his elephant to take it for a spin. He's embraced all of the changes our lives have been through like a champ. He even talks about his future and how he hopes to go to cool places with his family like he does with ours...and he's 8, I mean 9.

So I all I can say is Happy Birthday, Grayson! We love you lots and hope that year 9 brings you all of the happy things you deserve!

Farewell KL...

I still can't believe I'm writing this...that we're actually leaving Kuala Lumpur. I thought we'd be here at least another year, but Cargill has different plans for us.

Now, I know I haven't been at this ex-pat thing long...two years. And, I've listened to a lot of people complain about KL...and I've definitely had my whiny days. But, I truly loved it here! Truly!

So for my final blog from KL...I'm not even going to dwell on the things that drove me crazy. I'm leaving on a strictly positive note...nothing, but love. So here it is folks...all the things that I can possibly think of that I loved about our time here. Big and small. In no particular order. And I'm sure I'll forget a lot...but it will give you an idea.

Things To Love About Our Time in Kuala Lumpur...

• Our friends. We made so many...too many to list. And they shared in many of the great memories we will take with us. And helped us when we needed it. There are no words.You will be missed.  
• Easy travel. Oh, the places we have been...Bali, Phuket, Hong Kong, Vietnam, Seoul, Australia, Cambodia...Places I only dreamed of visiting. And they are amazing...
• Gold Class Movies. Yes, this is a completely silly thing to love about KL. But, love it I do! Big comfy recliners with pillows and blankets. There is no better way to watch a movie.
• Inexpensive manicures, pedicures, and massages. Whoa! I have been spoiled the last two years by these little indulgences. Very spoiled...
• The weather. Yes, it's hot and humid...but it's hot and humid year round. No snow. No boots. No coats. I will miss swimming on Christmas Day. I will miss wearing my flipflops year round. I will miss 80 degrees Fahrenheit at 7 a.m. - no matter what the date on the calendar reads.
• The food. KL has fantastic food - from all over the world. We were fortunate to be able to enjoy so much great cuisine while here...curry puffs, ayam goreng, Korean BBQ, dim sum, chicken vindaloo...the list could go on for pages. 
• What it has given my children. The experience of living here in KL has just made my children grow by leaps and bounds. I love listening to them talk to me about their friends from around the world or a service project they are working on at school. 
• Miss Elizabeth. We can't forget about our helper. She took such good care of our family...which afforded us lots of other things - like weekend trips away for Blaine and me and time for me to write uninterrupted. I think time is the most precious commodity she gave us. I'm so happy that she will be working for Cari and Eric...I know they will love her as much as we do.
• CrossFit Vidatha. I don't know what to say about this place except that if I hadn't come to KL, I wouldn't have started CrossFit. I wasn't a CrossFit hater in the U.S., I just had a gym where I was happy. So thank you Vidatha peeps...
• San Francisco Coffee. Now, in all honesty...the coffee here is average. You're not going to write home about the wonderfulness of the cup o' joe you drink here. But, I've probably visited San Fran Coffee 4 days per week for the last two years. I've spent endless hours here with my laptop banging out blogs, articles and emails. After the first week, their staff has always greeted me by name...and that's why I loved it there.

I could keep writing, but as I look at this list...most of it comes down to people. The friends you make, the people you interact with on a daily basis, the men and women teaching your children. People are what makes a place memorable. So thank you Kuala Lumpur for all of the people you brought into my life...and all of the memories I will take with me.

Fab 5 Friday...

WOW! Just one more week to go! It's really quite surreal. I still feel like we're just heading home for summer break and that we'll be returning to KL in August. But, alas, that is not the case. We received email confirmation that our container is on a boat heading to Poland via the Baltic Sea. So come August...Warsaw, baby!! That will be our new home.

Next week I will do the typical last posts from KL...what won't I miss, what I will miss...along with a loud cry of, "Hooray! We're out of here and heading back to see our family and friends!"

But, today I am content to drink some coffee and bang out one of my last Fab 5's from KL. So what's been going on this past week...well, let me share.

1. Canada Rocks. We headed to Canada Rocks last Saturday night with Barb and Eric. A very fun night! Cold beer, some fantastic food (pierogies and poutine and roast beef sandwiches with lots of horseradish - YUM!) and lots of laughs! We will truly miss this family when we leave. (Thankfully, there are plans for Oktoberfest in Munich in the works!)

And we can't forget the Gallaghers! (They're actually Canadian - unlike the four of us! ) It's always fun to hang out with Susan and Brian! We'll miss them lots, too!

2. Petronas Towers. Sunday was family day...and we finally went up in the Petronas Towers. In all the time that we've lived here, we have not done this. And, we made a promise to the boys that we would do this before we left...so Sunday was the day. It was a lot of fun! A clear day and we enjoyed playing tourist in this city where we live.

3. Student-Led Conferences. Both boys had student-led conferences this week where they lead you through their portfolio and share their reasoning for the items they have chosen. I'm always more curious to listen to their reasons for choosing pieces than looking at the pieces themselves. The self-reflection is much more important than the actual work. Sometimes they keep things very much on the surface level, but then there are other times when you can see the depth in their thoughts. It's quite remarkable to see this growth in these two boys.

4. See you agains. We've started to say "goodbye" to some of our friends. Please forgive me if I don't officially say goodbye or meet for coffee or a meal. I really hate the goodbyes. I'm a fade into the sunset kinda girl. I'm a see you soon or see you again kinda person. So yes, we're sneaking out of town without a party. Facebook continues to be the tie that binds. I know that I will be in communication with friends no matter where we are. 

We've got the kids hooked up on Kik for their friends who want to text them. (It's a freebie you can download for the iPad - even though it says iPhone only - and doesn't require a phone number to sign up - just an email.) This has made them happy. 

And thank you to those who have met for coffee or invited us for a meal. We've truly appreciated the kindness you've shown! Like last night with these crazy kids!

5. Haircut and color. Ah, yes...one last cut and color before leaving KL. Elaine decided she wanted to go a little "bolder" this time. I'll admit I was a little skeptical when I looked at it before it dried. (All I could think was Bozo the clown - it was so red!) But, it has grown on me...

Okay...that's a wrap peeps! Grayson has a class party this afternoon and then we're heading to Taps for a few beers and some munchies. Tomorrow has us spectating the finals boys' soccer tournament. And Sunday, well, Sunday has me sneaking off for one last mani and pedi while Blaine plays chauffeur to the boys for the afternoon. Enjoy your weekend!